I love y’all… ya know.. a couple of things OK
The preface to my post about snotty folks calling me lewd and vulgar really was intended to be light hearted. Seriously, folks who read and regularly comment on sex & spanking blogs have much more serious issues than I do if they’re gonna label the blogger they voraciously consume as lewd and vulgar. And may I say it was a voracious consumer, and as a matter of fact, an on going, very regular visitor of this blog who made that observation. It’s funny, if sad, and telling at the same time, not about me at all any more, but about the ego of the person who considers their own interests and predelictions so objectionable that they would/must persue them daily, visiting sites like mine several times a day, and then dare label me as the one who is lewd and vulgar. Awwwwwww! OK enough about that!!! I meant to make you smile & yeah giggle just a bit with me …….
I’m not perfect, heck I’m extremely flawed as human’s come, but there is one thing I am not, and that’s even a little bit ashamed of seking an openess about myself as a sexual human being or promoting that quest for others. Yes I got off to a bad start on line (no more excuses!), but even in the unfortunate start, my message hasn’t shifted… trust your self… Normal is irrelevant, healthy is the key, and healthy is always going to be what strengthens and bonds healthy adults. Spanking has that capacity to bond, whether it’s purely for sex, a blend of sex and serious, mostly or only serious spanking. Outsiders don’t get to judge. Those of us who share, dare and care may seek to support if allowed. No matter what, your needs and desires openly and offered with trust and sincerity to your partner deserve respect and with your committment & your partner’s nurture love and understanding, CAN be…..
That said here’s some images to help poor o’l Doc Tsai’s interventions with me seem much more … ummm. eh- hm… I guess severe?? LOLOLOL Sorry Tsai You & I know there was no wimping on either of our part… sooo yeah here’s some pics that might help rescue your image as a mucho seriouso spankmiester (which we both know without question you are no matter how the audio sounds….) … hehehehehehe I can vouch for you as a VERY sound and and VERY severe spanker… - when you want to be… *grin* Of course I’m no whimp recieving either… LOLOLOLOLOLOL
This comes from a different visit that Tsai may some day choose to share… it shows the straddle position that gave him such ballistic access to the more vulnerabl parts of my cheeks…
the leather paddle he used during our 1st session… It’s a very ouchie implement by the way….
the result of the straddle paddle position and the uderside of the cheeks effort with the vermont country store bath brush that is very well ouched, ow, ow, owed in the sound bites… 
May I point out that injuries like this have nothing to do with brutality, and virtually never can the spanker see it coming until it’s to late. They can happen after 10 whaps or 1,110 whaps. Don’t let them worry you. Appreciate the moment that produced them, let them heal and expect them if you should ever want to go further. Flesh is often not up to the heart….. 
December 28th, 2006 at 8:16 am
I’ve been reading through your last posts. There really were some things to look at and listen to… I’m sure those spankings did give you a lot. And the severity of these spankings isn’t the most important. It’s what they did for you that counts.
Like to wish you a Happy Spanking New Year with lots of friends. And maybe some less insecure feelings. After all you are a very special woman. :-y
Danielle
December 28th, 2006 at 11:52 am
Patty dear girl, very interesting photo’s, the last one could eek the inexperienced, but it’s not that unusual.
Mel’s butt would seep after some very intense play, and my butt was a lot worse after a severe birching at the Orphanage. Mel was treated with Calandula and ice packs which worked well.
BTW that You Tube Video, hilarious!!!
Love and warm hugs,
Paul.
December 29th, 2006 at 11:13 am
Hiya Patty,
This post speaks volumes to me… so much more here than meets the eye and the pics only make my take on it even more paramount. Severity is what we most need for our emotional healing and catharsis… and you are so right about the flesh not always holding up to those needs. Yes, the pic is hard to look at but it reminds me of how deep my pain, my want, my need can sometimes run… deeper than such visual and visible marks could ever reach.
Thank you for your continued friendship and support… you’ve always touched my heart and been close to my soul, from the very first time I dared read your blog.
Love you!
Tiggs
January 8th, 2007 at 10:30 pm
;) Thank you Danielle. Mostly what I got out of these spankings was the chance to get to know a very sweet guy… Doc Tsai. Happy Spank Year to you too.
Glad you like the You Tube Paul. Sometimes things seems so much eeekier than they are…. I suspect there’s a whole lot of spankos out there who are stuck on the stress of something as annoying & irritating as an easily bleeding butt zone. TY my friend…
Hi Tiggr long time no see in these digs *grin.* That’s the thing about the mark though Tig… The actual *real* physical injury *looks* so much worse than the real physical inury really was…. Whatever it symbolizes for my peers though, is not a small thing… for some it crosses a line and forces them into a mind space where scary thoughts like ‘brutality,’ ‘too far,’ and even ‘wrong,’ manage to creep in and get heard and worried about…. for others it’s barely a shoulder shrug. Here’s to Tiggr mastering the deamons…
Love to all & happy 2007
patty
January 10th, 2007 at 8:18 pm
Owie! But, as you so rightly put it - heart and flesh can not always coincide. I am so happy you can feel good about yourself and recognize the name callings as the silly expression it is — afterall we do read by choice. I for one appreciate and have learned from your sharing. Thank you so very much. Mary
January 25th, 2007 at 9:43 pm
TY Mary.